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Focus on YOU after a Break Up

When you start to feel better after a break up, it’s important that you don’t just jump into a new relationship. You’ve done your grieving, but now is the time to focus on YOU.

Danielle LaPorte: white hot truth + sermons on life

What if, first, we got clear on how we actually wanted to feel in our life, and then we laid out our intentions? What if your most desired feelings consciously informed how you plan your day, your year, your career, your relationships — your life?

Going through the Desire Map book (and really any of Danielle's books or even just email newsletters) are like talking to your wise best friend. Really great for getting clear on what you want.

Notsalmon | Karen Salmansohn

Teach Your Old Brain New Tricks with Karen Salmansohn, Best Selling Author with over 1 million books sold, Oprah columnist, Brand Consultant, Motivational Speaker & Proud Mommy.

We love Karen's banners and quotes and absolutely loved the books Prince Harming and The Bounce Back Book for this early stage of your breakup.

Iyanla Vanzant

We love anything by Iyanla Vanzant but during this time 'In the Meantime' can be an especially helpful read. Iyanla has a show on the Oprah Network that you may have seen. Spread throughout her books, her teachings come from being there herself and you feel that in her pages.

You know where you want to be, but you have no clue how to get there. You know exactly what you want in life, but what you want is nowhere in sight. Perhaps your vision is unclear, your purpose still undefined. If these scenarios feel familiar way down in the deepest part of your gut—then you, my dear, are smack dab in the middle of the meantime.

Chopra Center Marketplace - from Deepak Chopra & The Chopra Center

The Chopra Center has become the source for Ayurveda, alternative medicine, and spirituality by teaching the world how to achieve Perfect Health by creating harmony between body, mind, and spirit.

We love this site for finding tools to help with self-actualization. Take the dosha quiz and see how spot on it was for was VERY accurate for us.

Mr Unavailable and the FallBack Girl

If you've wondered what you 'did' to scare them, or why they've stopped being that person you met in the beginning, or what you can do to change them or yourself, or are even wondering if you're going crazy, Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl is the no holds barred guide to understanding unavailable relationships.

By the same author as the No Contact guide, Natalie Lue gives us this perfect sized read to make sure you aren't repeating old patterns. Great read.

Tiny Buddha: Wisdom Quotes, Letting Go, Letting Happiness In

Just sign-up for Tiny Buddha's newsletter and you'll know why we love this for when you're going through periods of growth.

The Single Woman - Single is the new Fabulous!

Blogger turned New York Times best-selling author and speaker Mandy Hale is affectionately known around the world as “The Single Woman.”

With a heart to inspire single women to live their best lives and to never, ever settle, Mandy cuts to the heart of the matter with her inspirational, straight-talking, witty, and often wildly humorous take on life and love. Also visit her site at

The Daily Love | Mastin Kipp

Follow Mastin Kipp to get inspiration on finding love in YOUR life.

Gabrielle Bernstein

Gabrielle Bernstein has been named “a next-generation thought leader” by Oprah Winfrey. She is the New York Times bestselling author of Miracles Now, and May Cause Miracles. She is also the founder of, a social networking site for women to inspire, empower and connect.

Gabby really has so much to offer that you just need to check her out and browse around to see what you want to start with first.

Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts

For the past 15 years, Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts has taught women of all ages to use the power of pleasure to have their way with the world. We enhance and expand the voice of women by fanning the flames of their desires, which opens the doors of fun and pleasure for everyone.

We think Mama Gena's book is just downright fun and if you happen to live in a city that she does seminars in, we're sure they're a blast too.

Making Child Support Easier - SupportPay

We don't really have much on the site on dealing with kids through breakups but we really loved this idea.

Despite the fact that more than 298 million parents exchange over $990 billion dollars every year in child support, after an order or agreement has been established parents are left to try to figure out how to manage the complicated, complex and time-consuming process. This can help.

Baggage Reclaim by Natalie Lue

Natalie Lue is an emotional baggage declutterer, shady relationship buster, and self-esteem booster all rolled into one.

You'll want to sign-up for her blog and get involved in the forums. Wonderful site for understanding some past mistakes and making sure you don't repeat them.