Acquired Vision
Most of us have regular interaction with them whether at home, at work, or in the hours in between. Relationships are critical to our well-being whether casual or professional define our lives and can be sources of great pleasure and pain. In this day and age technology can provide a plethora of appealing avenues for having a relationship without leaving your own home. Here I'll go over seven key characteristics of people who have extremely successful relationships.
Entering in relationship looking for something, a characteristic of this person that was not present in the previous, ultimately places some of your happiness in their hands.
Putting someone else in charge of your feelings and emotions is a recipe for disappointment.
Learn to be content with yourself,.. work on the aspects of yourself that need to be improved, and take full responsibility for your own happiness in any relationship.
The majority of disagreements in personal and professional relationships are the result of differing points of view. You have a different belief than the other person and try to persuade them that you are correct, or vice versa.
Don't give someone else the ability to control your happiness. Put your happiness first, ignore your need to be right, and choose to be happy instead. Conflicts will lessen as a result, and the door will be opened for improved communication.
Each person brings their own preferences, opinions, and communication methods to every relationship. These personal characteristics may or may not match those of the other, which can lead to potential conflicts if one is unwilling to compromise or even give up some of their beliefs.
People who have highly effective personal and professional relationships reach agreements rather than engage in conflict resolution.
In personal relationships, we frequently see endearing or attractive characteristics in the others, even if only caught a glimpse of them. These qualities may not be consistent or expressed sufficiently for our liking, and you are left wondering what the other could be like if he or she simply acted that way all the time. "The relationship would be so much better, more exciting, and fulfilling," you might think.
This secret is more applicable to romantic relationships, but it is also applicable to professional ones by substituting the word 'respected' for 'loved.' As an example, suppose your partner thinks of love as Chocolate. However, your understanding is that your partner feels love in the same way that Vanilla does. As a result, you go out and buy vanilla ice cream, believing that you are demonstrating your love. "I just want you to love me!" the other becomes irritated with you.
When not followed, this secret is the most basic and causes the most conflict. We all want and expect people to be open and honest with us, to express their true feelings, desires, and emotions. Furthermore, in any type of relationship, honesty is essential to having trust in the others.
If you want someone to be honest with you, This applies to all relationships.
You are still individuals with your own needs and interests, no matter how close you are to your significant other. Spending time alone doing your own thing demonstrates mutual respect rather than relationship strain. Accept and support each other's life goals while advocating for your partner's goals. It's never too late to brush up on your relationship skills or learn new ones.
for a happy** "Ever after"** life
I am an experienced "Long Term Relationships" advisor with knowledge gained from various studies and research projects specializing in interpersonal dynamics.
