Chopsticks are the standard utensil used in Japan and there are proper techniques associated with the proper use of them. You must hold the chopstick between your index, middle finger, and thumb. Make sure the bottom chopstick is lying in the crook of your thumb and resting on your ring finger; think of the chopstick as a pen and hold it in a similar grasp. Do not stab at the food and use the chopsticks like spears, it is considered rude. You may want to practice using chopsticks before heading out to Japan. Use the chopstick stand to place them in-between eating your meal, never lay them across the bowl. Make sure that you do not pass food from your chopstick to another's chopstick; you can, however, place the food at the edge of your plate and have them pick it up. Also, do not lick your chopsticks.