Joanna James
Visiting foreign destinations like Indonesia can often throw tourists from the west off balance. Not knowing the foreign customs and being sensitive about offending traditions are the main reasons. If you think the same, here are some mistakes to avoid when visiting Indonesia.
Indonesia, typical of most Southeast Asian nations, is a lovely place to enjoy a laidback lifestyle. And certainly, the people there practise this. Hence, it is important to visit the place with this same mindset. Take along loads of self-control; for example, don't expect the taxi driver and others in general to 'hurry up'. Or don't lose your cool when you don't get the correct change at the shop; simply add it to your data bank so you know what to expect next time. Calmly expressing your refusal will have a better effect, than a hands-on hip, angry tantrum.
Indonesians avoid confrontations. And arguments or loud accusations are not seen as kind gestures. Therefore, it is important to practise patience and not let your feelings get away with you. Emotional outbursts from you will only be viewed with disdain. If you do feel that you need space to be yourself while on holiday in Indonesia, choose accommodation at a serviced apartment Surabaya has on offer. These holiday apartments are ideal for enjoying an at-home feel and privacy, especially when you feel overwhelmed by the cultural difference. Popular options like Ascott Waterplace Surabaya are well located, for easy access to restaurants and sightseeing.
Religion is part of the culture in Indonesia. Around 85% of the population are Muslims. Hence, you can expect a more conservative society but different to the Islamic practises of the Middle East. There are other religions too, spread across the archipelago. Buddhism, Hinduism and Christianity have influenced the islands and are included as part of the society. There is also ancestral worship and Confucianism. These variations in beliefs are attributed to the island being a hub for trade in the region for many centuries. Therefore, it is wise to have an open mind and not be judgemental in your comments, and you will have no issues with the locals.
Indonesians are friendly and reserved. And while places like Bali and Jakarta will be more tourist-oriented, you will find that people in the villages treat you more like guests. Reciprocating this respect will earn you their favour. Learn the magical word boleh, which in Indonesian means 'may I'. The simple phrase can be used in varied contexts. For example, if you want to take a picture of a local, use boleh to ask if you may.
Using the left hand in Indonesia is seen as taboo. It is because that is considered the hand that's used in the toilette. Sadly, for all you lefthanders out there, it is not appropriate to use the left hand for eating, serving food, or accepting things in Indonesia, although the stigma may be overrated given the fact that there are bound to be lefthanders within the society. A few more rules include pointing with your right thumb because doing so with your index finger is considered rude. Removing your shoes before entering a house is a courtesy.
Respect the culture and enjoy an unforgettable holiday!
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A travel writer who has a passion for fashion and a deep interest in admiring new and exotic attractions around the world.
