Abraham, one of my favorite spiritual teachers, preaches selfishness, and I fully agree. I love Abraham's teachings about selfishness and I completely 'get it' that if I'm not there for myself then I have nothing to give to anyone else.
We are always In this busy lifestyle of modern civilisation a lot of people don't seem to find the time take time out for their well being and to restore positivity. doing the best we can at any given time.