Success comes with a lot of challenges in which 75% of its challenges is fear. There are some other common challenges that are not fearful but keeps us from achieving success which are laziness, procrastination, lack of self discipline, lack of self believe e.t.c. To overcome these other common challenges, hover and click on…
I can confidently say that if you see someone that does not have self regard, you will treat the person without regard. Regard means respect while self regard means respect for yourself. Not regarding yourself is telling everyone that you are not worthy of regard from them. The popular phrase, dress how you want…
Strength can be easily lacked because with strength, you need hardwork. To be hardworking, you need strength. With hardwork, you will be successful and that is why you need to develop strength but when you are not hardworking because you lack strength, how do you intend to be successful? We fail to renew our strength…
The reason most of us are backward with our financial, social, emotional, mental life e.t.c is because we probably think if we change, we might be seen or labelled as inconsistent and not reliable. If you know the power in change, to be labelled as inconsistent and unreliable will be gibberish talks to you. To…
Of course, dreams here are not nightmares but goals, ambitions to be achieved. Some have goals and ambitions, some are struggling to have goals and ambitions while some don't care if they have or not but if you happen to fall in any of the categories, you can read my post on how to…
Majority of people, when you ask them what is the #1 secret to power, they will probably say having money, having a lot of material things, being proud or treating others badly. That is the mindset of majority of people for getting power. But what about those that want power but don't want to act…
What is a vast? A vast is something that is great, a lot, huge or immense and kindle which is to inspire or arouse. To kindle your vast, is to arouse your greatness. Do you believe you have a vast? I believe we all have a vast. Apart from always having a positive mindset so…
In my opinion, self improvement is widely irrelevant and treated with disregard or disrespect. People don't value for self improvement. People are busy chasing money, marriage, children, material things, examinations e.t.c but what they don't understand is that when you chase self development, these things will chase you instead i.e you don't have to worry…
When we fail, we tell ourselves but I did everything required for me to succeed and you begin to make yourself feel like you are not capable of succeeding and that's why you didn't succeed. What we fail to do is understand the reasons we failed and going back to check what we did wrongly…
Because of the majority of the unbearable lifestyle of people, we get carried away from being a good person. There are also sometimes, we drift from being a good person unknowingly without being affected by anything. Have been in situations, whereby have been corrected from my bad actions that if I was conscious of those…
You wonder, why are some people so loved, cared for, sort after (attention), always needed? and you want or wish to be like them but don't know what you are suppose to do. In my opinion, most of the time, most people are born with the gift but you can develop being liked by…
I'm sure those who have goals would not believe there are those who have problems having goals. Socially, most people have goals but have problems achieving the goals. What about those who don't have goals and struggling to have one? You see yourself working for others but not working for yourself because you are struggling…
You were told you will be given a test by Monday afternoon on Friday and its Saturday, you planned to start preparation Saturday and Sunday. It's Saturday, but you thought preparing for the test on Sunday is still fine and you are a bit tired anyway, why not start Sunday. It's Sunday but how will…
Is life simple or difficult? In one of my posts titled human nature, I wrote "You sow just one mango seed and you reap a mango tree with lots of mangoes on it. life is a cheerful giver. life is simple! You reap what you sow. The rules of life are already stated. They are…
Self discovery should be an important practise for everyone. Self discovery is having a deep insight into yourself which I recommend it is done as frequent as possible. The main reason we have a lot of people with low self esteem, lack of confidence, more people being rejected, hateful people, jealous people, depressed people and…
When you are being yourself When you are being yourself, you will understand life from a different version of yourself and make better decisions, you will find people who you can relate with better and faster than when you are not being yourself, you will have more control of your life, you are not taken…
To accrete which means to increase and value which is means profit. Because value means profit and every business person looks forward to increase his or her profit, you should also try to increase your value for better living. Rate your value over hundred. Are you comfortable with the result? Failure to accrete our value…
When we hear of leadership, what first comes to our mind is someone leading a group of personnel or single personnel but what we don't understand is being able to lead ourself is also called leadership. Everyone has the responsibility of a leadership. We are responsible for ourself. We most times substitute leadership for titles…
To be self motivated, means to be self driven. It is easy to motivate others but when it comes to motivating yourself, it becomes rocket science. You can walk up to anybody right now, tell them about your problem to get some advice and you'll see how different advises will rush down their mouth like…
When you get to a phone store to buy a phone, you don't just buy that phone. You test all the functions of that phone to make sure the phone is working properly. You have probably been advised to always live your life peacefully but do you really know what a peaceful life feels like?…
Though, in my post titled the key to eternal happiness, I ended the post with the sentences "The key to eternal happiness is to create happiness from nothing. That way, nothing is something and everything becomes something. Then happiness is at your command." I will back up the sentences with the habits to develop to be…
Having to ability to say NO when you are not interested in partaking at something with friends can be a difficult because you might feel, you will be labelled as a bad person, an insecure person, a difficult person, you might not be liked and be you will be rated poorly. Because you don't want…
The moment you understand that God doesn't make mistakes is the time you realize that you are flawless. The society made us believe that some are flawless while some are not. But the moment we also realize that no one is perfect, is the time we know that we all have flaws. Because we know…
There are some people that don't have problems finding fun, some are struggling with how to find fun not to talk of having fun while others are not interested in fun at all. Depending on our nature, what we call fun might differ from person to person. Whether we have fun, struggling to have fun…
