Are You Divorced? 4 Tips To Get Noticed On Dating Sites

When you write your dating profile, make sure you make at least a passing mention of your divorce. Some people have hangups about dating divorcees and you could weed them out easily. At the end of the day, you don't want your past marriage become a stumbling block when everything else seems to be working out. But the key thing to remember here is that there is always the danger of sharing too much information upfront. "My first marriage ended in a divorce and I hope I am lucky the second time" should be good enough. There is no need to go into the gory details or accuse your ex of misdeeds :)

Once bitten, twice shy. You might have had a bad experience with your first marriage and it is natural to keep an eye open for all warning signs the second time.However, don't fall into the trap of listing everything you hate or don't like in your dating profile. Nobody likes a negative nellies. Don't list everything you hate and dislike about people. You want people to smile at your dating profile not frown.

Bringup your ex in your conversations can happen but not in the first few dates. Any form of comparison (good or bad) will create doubts and questions about your state of mind and people will wonder if you have actually moved on for good. Keep the initial conversations focused on your personality, understanding the other person and finding out if you have some sort of personal chemistry.

Some people upload a profile photo with their child. While this is a bold move, your chances of getting a response narrows significantly. Also focussing too much on your child in your dating profile can also filter out your options more than what you bargained for. Granted, the handful of responses you may get will be from people who know what they are potentially getting into, but it's better to cast a wide net at the beginning to get the best catch!