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If you are planning to sign up for a matrimonial site, follow these 5 tips to get more responses for your profile. After all, what's the point of using a matrimonial site if all you get is rejection?
Did you know that we make a decision about the person we see for the first time in a fraction of a second? Yes, first impressions matter a lot and your profile photograph can make or break your attempt to find suitable matches on matrimony sites. Go to a modern photo studio or hire a professional photographer to take a few portrait photographs.
You should take time and effort to write about yourself. Just focussing on your vital statistics and list of family members doesn't really help you stand out. Add information about your lifestyle, personality, interests, likes and dislikes. Make your profile unique and let your personality shine through.
Every matrimonial site has different privacy settings that will allow you to block your photographs or your contact numbers from being visible to other members. Some sites will also let you filter out people who may not meet some of your criteria. Make sure you are aware of what these privacy settings are be reasonable in using these settings. After all, you are not the only catch in the sea!
Make sure you understand how matchmaking sites pair you with likely matches. Always start looking for broad-based matches and don't apply too many filters up front. Start applying search filters as a means to improve the quality of your matches. If you are using Jeevansathi, click here to read an in-depth article on how to get more responses. Shaadi.com users can click here.
The purpose of matrimony sites is to find prospective matches for marriage. Marriage is the primary intent and not dating. When you find someone you are interested in, it is OK to meet the person and discuss everything under the sun to find out if you are compatible. But avoid dragging the conversation with no real commitment to moving forward. Make up your mind by asking these questions during your meetings.