It seems cheating, like alcohol and drugs, is widely prevalent and some of us are actively looking to cross the line! Of course, every day, there are countless cases of men and women finding out that their spouse or partner has cheated on them and going through the trauma of lost self-confidence, rage and depression. When you add children into the mix, cheating assumes even greater destructive power in your life. Here are 5 ways you can find out if your partner or spouse is cheating on you.