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Updated by Deirdre Waldron on Dec 13, 2019
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Rules of Engagement!

Listly by Deirdre Waldron

One evening @gregcantyfuzion & I were discussing "games" people play when dating. He totally does not agree with games, but I begged to differ!! I call it "reeling him in through faked indifference". And before you ask - they worked for me!! Here are my rules - girls feel free to add to them :) Actually when reading over them - Greg thinks they could refer to business too! Note - this is for just the beginning of a relationship - after that - all rules and games should go out the window :)))

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Display your independence at all times.

Display your independence at all times.
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Don't be dependent on him.

Don't be dependent on him.
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Don't talk about your ex's

Don't talk about your ex's
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Date a guy who's more into you than you are to them

Date a guy who's more into you than you are to them
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At the beginning, don't let him know how much you like him

At the beginning, don't let him know how much you like him
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Always be the one to hang up first.

Always be the one to hang up first.
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Always let him know you have alternatives.

Always let him know you have alternatives.
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Don't give away too much about yourself.

Don't give away too much about yourself.
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Give him your number, don't take his.

Give him your number, don't take his.

Logic of this, is that when you are waiting by the phone for him to call you, you can't be tempted to call him first - after 4 glasses of wine for courage!

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Delete his number if he doesn't call within 48 hours - but communicate the rule !

Delete his number if he doesn't call within 48 hours - but communicate the rule !
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Dump him if he is willing to go Dutch on the first date

Dump him if he is willing to go Dutch on the first date

Of course you should offer to go Dutch - but he shouldn't except your offer!

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Make an effort but don't make it obvious.

Make an effort but don't make it obvious.
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Give him a taste of what's to come!

Give him a taste of what's to come!