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It takes time and effort to heal a relationship after an affair. Take these steps to help you get back on the road to love. Have more tips to suggest? Submit something to our list and we just might include it!
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Get help from a licensed counselor that is experienced in dealing with infidelity. It can help you put the affair into perspective, identify issues that may have contributed to the affair, learn how to rebuild and strengthen your relationship, and save the relationship, provided that is the mutual goal.
Infidelity is devastating and heartbreaking. It will be difficult to forgive but it may become easier over time.
Be open and honest with your partner and don't let secrecy continue to harm your relationship. If you are the cheater, you may be ready to move forward and put the affair behind you but it is important to let your partner recover at his or her pace. Give them as much time as they need
Take responsibility if you were the one that cheated. End the affair and any and all interaction and communication with the other person. You need to accountable for your actions.
The initial shock will be hard but once it’s over, discuss openly and honestly what happened. It’s going to be difficult to talk or hear about the affair but it’s a necessary step.
