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Updated by Harvey Bailey on Aug 30, 2022
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Top ways to attract someone you're interested in

Trying to attract someone you're interested in can be tricky. If you're too shy, they may never get to know the real you. But if you're too forward, you may come across as desperate or pushy. If you are wondering how to attract people or how can you strike the perfect balance?
Here are a few tips:

  • First, make sure you're actually interested in dating them. It sounds obvious, but it's important to make sure you're on the same page before pursuing anything further.

  • Once you've established that you're both interested in dating, take things slow. Get to know them better by talking and spending time together. Don't rush into anything Physical until you're both ready.

  • Be yourself! The more genuine and authentic you are, the more likely they are to be interested in you. So don't try to be someone you're not just to impress them.

Following these tips should help you attract the person you're interested in without coming across as desperate or pushy. Just relax and let things flow naturally. Good luck!

What to do if they seem uninterested
Dating can be tricky- you want to attract people, but you don't want to seem desperate or like you're trying too hard. If someone you're interested in seems uninterested, there are a few things you can do to try and change that.

First, try being more playful-bring up topics that you know they'll be interested in and be engaging and fun.

Second, try being more flirty- let them know that you're interested in them and make it clear that you're attracted to them.

Finally, don't be afraid to be direct- sometimes people just need a little push to realize that you're interested in them. If none of these things work, then it might be time to move on.

There's no use chasing after someone who isn't interested in you. dating should be fun, so focus on finding someone who makes you happy.

*How to know if they're interested in you *
Trying to figure out if someone is interested in you can be a daunting task, especially if you're not sure how to interpret their actions.
However, there are a few general tips that can help you gauge whether or not someone is interested in dating you.

First, pay attention to how much eye contact they make. If they maintain eye contact for more than a few seconds at a time, or if they often look directly into your eyes when speaking to you, it's likely that they're interested in you.

Another sign of interest is body language. If someone is leaning towards you when you're talking, or if they often touch your arm or shoulder, they're probably attracted to you.

Finally, listen to the things they say. If they regularly ask you personal questions or make an effort to find out more about your life, it's likely that they want to get to know you better. By paying attention to these signs, you'll be better able to tell if someone is interested in dating you.

Final thoughts
Dating can be a cumbersome process. Oftentimes, people put up an online dating profile and sit back, waiting for people to reach out to them. However, this passive attitude is unlikely to attract many people.
A more effective approach is to be proactive and send messages to people who you're interested in. This doesn't mean that you should bombard them with messages or become overly clingy. Instead, just reach out and start a conversation.
By taking the initiative, you're more likely to find someone who you're compatible with.

So if you're feeling discouraged about the dating process, remember that it's often necessary to put yourself out there in order to attract someone special. With a little effort, you're sure to find the right person for you.

  • I'm a psychologist who likes to study relationships between couples. I enjoy helping people solve problems and guide them in the right direction.

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